Saturday, February 10, 2007

There's a 17th!!

If you want to be happy, be happy! I read that somewhere about 3 years ago and it kind of goes along well with the other 16 - if you want it be it - kind of along the same lines of Gandhi, I think it was him anyway! - Be the change you want to see

And that works brilliantly for clients who are having 'problems' communicating - ask them to imagine how they'd like it to be and then ask them to take at least one step towards being the person they see in their 'future' each day. i've found it helps enormously, though as I'm not completely without 'stuff' find that sometimes the halo slips, and after I think, aha, I didn't act as if.

All of that asides, which almost amounts to a but ... love your 16 Brian!!